Reasons Why Women, Men and Couples are Contacting a Holistic Sexologist

Q: Why are people contacting you?

A: Common reasons why couples, men and women, are contacting a sexologist are various.

Sexual dissatisfaction is the result of one or more of the following conditions:

1) Lack of knowledge of one´s own body, especially genitalia.

2) Lack of knowledge of how to experience and share sexual pleasure - if one chooses to do so.

3) Guilt and shame about one´s body, feelings, thoughts, and sexual activity often have their roots in their upbringing.

4) ED, PE, intimacy anxiety, arousal, libido - sex drive, sexual pain, and orgasm issues can also be used as an arena in which a couple chooses - usually subconsciously - to work out their power or other problems.

Sexual response or the lack of it can be a barometer of the health of the entire relationship. 

Women are sometimes mistakenly treated as sexually disordered because they have marital tensions. While being often conditioned to be conservative about sexual desire, sometimes women are also taught that their bodies should be available for men's pleasure. These issues, if present, would be addressed as part of one´s consultation.

Cultivating sexual awareness and intelligence helps men, women, and couples access accurate information and make informed choices before engaging in intimacy with their beloved - if they choose to. 

It also leads to better intimate life and deeper connections, creating space to explore and experiment safely. 

Please call 04 344 1901, WhatsApp, or call +971 50 969 0857, in Dubai, the UAE 050 969 0857 to book an appointment with physician-referred best practice sexologist Christina Lindea in Dubai, e-mail at, or use the Contact Form at the end of the page.

Book a confidential appointment at her Jumeirah office to manage men's sexual challenges and experiences of frustration: such as low libido, control (premature ejaculation), male sexual performance anxiety, erection difficulties, PIED and erectile dysfunction.

Call to book and discover female-friendly female sexual health and enhancement solutions for female sexual dysfunctions and women's sexual problems — such as low sexual desire, sexual arousal (FSAD), and orgasm challenges.

Some women experience sexual pain (vaginismus, vulvodynia, dyspareunia, vestibulitis) and want to identify and manage the root causes of why sex hurts and why they feel dry and tight. They don't want to ignore the causes of vaginal dryness and possible sexual side effects of menopause.

Most women wish to overcome painful sex and other sexuality worries via lasting, non-invasive, and safe evidence-based sexual health solutions beyond the medical therapy model.

Most women are aware that female genital cosmetic surgery or procedures to alter the appearance of genitalia or function are not medically indicated (excluding procedures performed for clinical indications). Such operations pose risks of potential complications such as reduced natural lubrication and dyspareunia due to the tissue being removed. Also, these surgeries' safety and effectiveness have not been fully established.

Both men and women wish to dissolve negative habits and behaviors and better understand shame, guilt, inhibitions, insecurities, fantasies, and out-of-control behavior. Even to appreciate their consensual non-monogamy and commitment preparation concerns.

Partners want to overcome sexual dissatisfaction in a couple, such as loss of intimacy, skill, repertoire, compatibility, and boundary concerns. 

Some do not have a partner who meets their needs and feel unloved, unsupported, and unappreciated and wish to learn how to speak up for themselves to communicate their needs effectively.

Wanting to overcome body image problems, shift limiting beliefs, negative societal messages, and awaken one´s sensual self by somatics, an effective way to bring awareness to repressions, desires, and fears by professional body awareness techniques.

Many men want to improve sexual function by strengthening the male PC muscle for stronger stamina. Ultimately, learn the secret to non-stop energy flow (Stop-Start sexological behavioral change method). 

Many are scheduling appointments to clear psychological and energetic blockages and symptoms of stress, to reduce anxiety and improve the quality of sleep, to support the body to produce more of its hormones to keep you alert and thriving at any age.

Some want to reconnect with their inner self and learn to unlock one's bliss potential by awakening and strengthening your bioelectricity, known as prana. Alternatively, to deepen Tantra Prana energy cultivation practices by expanding and circulating prana throughout the body for personal development and sacred cosmic awakening.

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